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Can't cook!  I can cook, I just choose not too.  Why would I cook when I have a wonderful, talented, and beautiful maid, err wife.  Thanks for all you do sweetheart.

The 2 of Us

The Two of Us

1. What is your/his name?Toby & Sandra Shaffer
2. Who eats more? Definitley Toby by far!
3. Who said I love you first? I don't remember, I think it was mutual.
4. Who is taller? Toby (only by two inchs, rounding up)
5. Who is smarter? Depends on the subject, overall I would say Toby. He is becoming a doctor, I would hope he would be smarter than me!
6. Who is more sensitive? Me, before we were married it was Toby.
7. Who does the laundry? Me, Toby doesn't have time to do much besides study, study, study!
8. Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? I do!
9. Who pays the bills? We both do, Toby keeps up on our finances though, I am working on getting better at that. I hate it!!
10. Who cooks more? Toby cooking are you joking, I think he would burn down the house! The little that he does involves the microwave, or just a bowl and some cereal.
11. What meals do you cook together? I would have to say desert, I mix and bake and Toby licks the bowl!
12. Who is more stubborn? Depends on what it is, but the majority of the time it is Toby! I usually give in, to avoid an ongoing argument!
13. Who is first to admit when they are wrong? I am, Toby never admits when he is wrong, hence the stuborn attitude. I still love him dearly though!
14. Who has more siblings? Depends, I have 9 but 6 are step, 3 step sisters, 3 step brothers and 3 biological sisters, Toby has 5, 4 sisters and 1 brother.
15. Who wears the pants in the relationship? He does, but I try to inch my way in a leg every once in awhile.
16. What do you like to do together? Anything that is FREE! Movies, card games, picnics, camping, cuddling (most favorite), and smooching (another most favorite)!
17. Who eats more sweets? Hands down Toby! I am surprised this man has not contracted Diabetes from how much he eats!
18. Guilty pleasures? Toby-brownies, chocolate chip cookies, and peanut butter M&M's, Sandra-Bahama Bucks! and anything chocolate.
19. How did you meet? We met at St. Lukes Meridian, where we were both working.
20. Who asked who out first? He did!!
21. Who kissed who first? Toby did, I wanted to kiss him but he wouldn't let me. We told each other we wouldn't kiss for the first week we were dating. It was so romantical, it was at the Boise Temple in front of the waterfountain.
22. Who proposed? Toby
23. What is your/his best feature? Toby has lots of great features, I mean just look at him! That bald head is irresistable! Besides his sexy bald head I would say his eyes and his cute little but. His eyes made me melt the first time we meet, and his but is just so nice and firm! That made me melt as well!
24. What is your/his best quality? Toby's best quality is that he can change any bad situation into an uplifting and fun experience. He also is so motivated and so strong! That boy has strength I never knew existed! Not many people can loose their father and go back to school, not just any school, Parker. Parker is hard enough without drama! He is such an example to me! I love you babe, I am so proud of you!